Red flags for guy you are dating
” The most serious red flags in my book can be summed up with 3 C’s.I would rather marry an unattractive, boring man with great character than the most charming guy who lacks it.
If a guy has no desire to fulfill your needs in the bedroom, it's a huge problem. Sex is made for two people to both participate in and enjoy. If your guy is the only one being satisfied by your intercourse, you need to subtract yourself from the equation and leave him to his hand. No type of relationship should ever leave you feeling bad about yourself.Because if that doesn’t scream, "I degrade women," I don’t know what does.This is obviously awful, and I can confidently say it's a red flag for any person, man or woman.In every dating relationship there are “red flags.” If you can’t identify them, most likely you don’t know the guy very well.He’s perpetually late, insensitive, or maybe there is no spark between you.Can you trust him to value your feelings even when he doesn’t understand you?
Character can sometimes be difficult to discern in a dating relationship.
Juli Slattery is a TCW regular contributor and blogger.
We live in a culture of hookups and where the concept of boyfriend and girlfriend seems obsolete.
If he is still “best friends” with his ex while trying to pursue a relationship with you, you're getting duped. The people you surround yourself with should lift you up and make you feel your best.
The only reason two exes are continuing contact is because either one or both of them sees a possibility of getting back together. Anything less is something you just don’t need in your life. This guy will tell you, “I’ll take you out,” or “I’ll introduce you to my friends.”Yet every time you hang out, it’s alone in bed together.
A healthy marriage is impossible without traits like integrity, kindness, and unselfishness.