4 year age difference dating
When I dated guys my age, I had to pay for dinner, and concerts, and their lives.
I like my current boyfriend, even though it has only been three months, because I feel safe, comfortable, and secure with him.This is where self-awareness is key – especially when it comes to dating older men.Ask yourself: for marriage soon, then you’re probably going to feel rushed if you feel pushed to a level commitment you’re not ready for.So when it comes to age, you want to strike a balance between being realistic and open-minded. They have an extremely specific vision of a guy they’re looking for (e.g.“must work in financial services and be between age 30-35”). In fact, they can make you miss out on tons of amazing guys who don’t fall in these requirements. So if you know a 45 year old guy is going to want a steady, committed relationship leading to marriage, whilst you’re 26 and can’t even see yourself committing to living in one country right now, then that guy probably isn’t for you.Think carefully about what stage of life you’re both in and work backwards from there.
And always, listen to what a guy says – it will tell you very clearly what he’s looking for. You always have to be willing to be surprised in dating, and age gaps are no different!
Age Matters Less With Time “I don’t think it is a big deal at all that my boyfriend is 15 years older than me.
Once you get past your twenties, age means nothing in love and relationships. Despite the age difference, we always have a lot to talk about and our lives are very similar, too.
It’s not new money (or young money) where he wants to go out and blow it on stupid things; it’s the earned life he’s been creating for years. There’s very little fighting or problems that pop up.
I like that security, and the thought that with him, money isn’t an issue.”—Mary, 33 There's Less B. “My advice to everyone is date somebody who is older than you. Related: Age Gap: How It May Damage Your Relationship I love dating older because then there is less drama and B.
For some men, that could be his early twenties (this is typically the guy who marries his high school sweetheart).