Dating emotionally unavailable girl
However, this doesn’t mean they won’t want to be involved emotionally.The main difference between the two is the secure and confident person will be willing to be honest from the beginning about what their intentions are.
Very often an EU person is demonized and called childish or a game-player when it isn’t always true.The physical side of the relationship, along with the intellectual and affectionate side, may all be perfectly aligned, however the emotional aspect of the relationship will be almost non-significant.An EU will very likely be unwilling to commit; not just to the emotional side, they will unlikely commit to any other aspect of the relationship either.However, when it comes to feelings and emotions, the one-way valve closes.They won’t really be interested in receiving them and they definitely won’t be interested in giving them out.This may be due to the fact that many who are not ready for emotional connections send out mixed messages.
One minute they can appear loving and attentive while the next cold and distant.
There is also the case of “he/she’s just not that into you.” Which can be a painful pill to swallow.
It may be nothing to do with the person’s stage in life, but more to do with the person they are in a relationship with when it comes to opening and closing emotional barriers.
Again, the proof is always, always in the words and actions.
With an open eye and mind it will be very easy to pinpoint exactly what someone’s intentions are.
Someone who is EU (emotionally unavailable) may still desire all the attractions of a casual or even committed relationship, however, they will not be willing or capable of connecting emotionally.